How to Become Friends with Other Mature Singles05/06/2015
For a lot of people, it isn’t all that easy making new friends. Whether it is because you feel out of touch with people in your age group, you are an introvert and making friends feels like a huge task, or you simply do not have time to go out and meet people. Fortunately, there is this amazing thing called the Internet.
Millions of people use this wonderful bit of technology, and because of it, it is incredibly easy to make friends online. With sites like LoveBeginsAt.com, you have the ability to meet other mature singles who are eager to broaden their circle of friends.
Members of various dating websites were asked is the best way to make friends online. Here are some of the best tips we received.
1. Familiarize Yourself with Their Work
What this means is that if you are interested in getting to know someone, via a blog they run or just through public posts they make on a website or forum, read their stuff. It is a great way to get an idea of who the person is and their views on certain things.
2. Be Patient
Making friends with other mature singles online isn’t going to happen overnight. Like you, they have other things going on in their daily lives and they may not be able to respond to your messages right away. Like with any other relationship, you are going to have to understand that sometimes you will meet someone who you will not click with. Cultivating a friendship, be it in person or online, takes time.
3. Talk to Them
How else are you going to get to know someone if you don’t talk to them? No matter where you go online, there is usually a social aspect to the site — whether you can leave comments, join a Facebook page, follow them on Twitter… Instead of being a blind follower, engage with them. You can start off small by saying hello or commenting on something they said. From there, you can build on that and eventually, you will get to that point where a friendship has been cultivated.
4. Extend an Invitation for a Skype Conversation
One way to usher in a new friendship is by “seeing” the person. While you may feel awkward at first, you may find that when you ask the other person to have a video conversation, it will give you a certain level of realness that wasn’t there before. Many people find it easier to forge a friendship with someone if they can actually see that person.
5. Try to Meet in Person
Now, we aren’t saying to go onto a message board and invite random people to meet up with you somewhere. We are saying that if you’ve been talking to a mature single for a while and you both feel comfortable with each other, then maybe you may want to see if they’d like to meet up for coffee. By this point, you should already know a bit about each other, so the conversation won’t lag too much. When you meet in person, you may find that the friendship will blossom even more — especially if you enjoy each other’s company.