Just because you’ve turned 40, it does not mean that your love life is over. There are many people who have embraced their age and refuse to let it get in the way of sexy time. Oh no… That couldn’t be further from the truth! In fact, when you look at some of the most prolific lovers from the past 100 years, you would be quite surprised by their age and how many partners they have had!
For example, when you think of Ron Jeremy, Mick Jagger, and Hugh Hefner — all of which are over 40 years old, you automatically think of sex. Ron Jeremy, yes, the Ron Jeremy of adult entertainment, holds the Guinness World Record for “Most Appearances in Adult Films” has had 4,000 sexual partners! He is tied with the sex icon of the Rolling Stones, Mick Jagger.
Of course, while the average Joe may be amazed by those numbers and aspire to have that many sexual encounters, let alone partners, there have been men who have had many more lovers!
Ron Jeremy isn’t the only porn star who has a lengthy list of conquests. John Holmes, the inspiration behind the movie, “Boogie Nights” was known for being pretty well hung, as he boasted to having 20,000 sexual partners!
So, how can you get your mojo on like these sexual beasts? LoveBeginsAt.com has created some useful tips that you can keep the mojo flowing well into your 40s.
1. Age Is Just a Number
You learn that as you get older, age is but a number. If you want to go out and hang out with feisty 20-somethings, go for it! If they make you feel young and alive, embrace if. If you have always been drawn to people who are older than you, then ask them out! Too often people get hung up on age and they miss out on some incredible people.
As an accomplished adult who probably has a full time career, obligations, and possibly a family to raise, you have enough on your plate. You do not want to add your love life to that list. When you are dating after 40, you don’t want to let the stresses of your everyday life seep into your love life. Before you go out on a date, take a deep breath, relax, and remind yourself to have fun.
3. Confidence is Key
Whoever said that life is over once you hit 40 must’ve been miserable. Now that you’re in your 40s, you probably have a lot to offer someone. Let your personal accomplishments boost your confidence and don’t be afraid to show it! You’ve worked hard to get to where you are and you shouldn’t be afraid to show it. Just remember, there is a fine line between being confident and being cocky — no one likes a douche.